Fantastic news all around - we had an excellent and productive trip to the Amazon, I got the promotion to tenure track (still in the negotiation phase, but the offer is official - YAAAAAAY!), and my masters student successfully defended. It took a couple weeks, but Maya has completely forgiven us for our long absence (she was pretty mad about it), and I've headstarted two whole flats of seeds for my garden this year, including a bunch of aji amarillo peppers so that I can make the Peruvian delicacy huancaina upon harvest :) Life in our household is happy and vibrant! However, there are two things that weigh on my mind: 1) the insane increase in productivity/efficiency that I'll need to shoot for if I'm to get tenure here, and 2) the decision about whether or not to have another child. Make no mistake, the first child didn't seem like a choice (in a good way). If I couldn't both be a professor and have one child, then I didn't want to be a professor. ...
Baby #1, is it? I hope you've mentioned to your husband that you have such big plans. Also, you may want to see how things go with the first before committing to a second. You might find you have a perfect child that can never be matched by any siblings (my parents had that problem with me).
ReplyDeleteMaybe you should read the next post to see how excited I feel about repeating the pregnancy experience anytime soon :oP
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